HOW TO BE HAPPY

If you are having a hard time enjoying life and feeling good with who you are there is one thing you need to do: stop waiting to be happy until you get the perfect job or a better loving relationship or a bigger house or whatever it is that you are waiting for. You will never find happiness outside of you, that will only lead to disappointment. You have to be feel happy now. 


Happiness is a state of mind and not a goal in life. If you don't change your state of mind first, your life will never change.


If you keep your attention on the things that are missing in your life, you will keep attracting the lack of them. But if you focus on what makes you feel good, more things that make you feel that way will manifest.
Start feeling gratitude for what you already have and you will witness the miracle of life: once you realize that happiness only depends on your thoughts and emotions, you will gain absolute control over your life and the things you have been waiting for will manifest into your reality effortlessly and unexpectedly.


YOUR HIGHER-SELF


The first thing you need to do to reach this state of consciousness is to get in contact with your Higher Self. The Higher Self is the real you, your total soul consciousness. It is the true essence that has accompanied you incarnation after incarnation and the one that knows everything about you and the universe. It has your instruction manual and knows your true mission on Earth.
If you want to get to know this real you than you have to observe life very carefully. Look at every choice you make and where it takes you and try to make sense of every event that happens into your life. Remember, there are no accidents or coincidences but just synchronicities. Everything has been carefully orchestrated by a divine cosmic plan. Once you'll realize that and learn to read the signals you will flow through life like a river.

GOOD & BAD 


Learn to accept the bad things in life knowing that they are also part of the divine plan. Due to our duality, we can either see things as good or bad. However, we have to understand that all things come for a reason: to give us an experience that will make us learn in order for us to complete our evolutionary process on Earth.
Try to understand the reason behind your bad luck, you will realize that everything happens for your own good.

LIVE IN THE "NOW"

You have to let go of your idea of identity based on your past, that will only make you feel as a victim, which in turn will bring more events that will make you feel that way. Do not hold your attention on the past and always live in the present moment enjoying every single second of your existence. If you are walking, keep your attention on walking, be present in your mind and observe you emotions and thoughts. If you do this every moment of your life you will soon be one with the divine presence of your Higher Self and nothing will cause you anger or frustration ever again.
Do not even think of the future, that will only bring worry. Why would you want to worry yourself for problems that didn't even happen yet? Just live in the present without expectations of the future and all will be well.
There is no past nor future, only our perception of time ticking. The only real moment that exists is the now.

ACCEPT WHO YOU ARE

You might have disappointed yourself a lot in the past but if you let go of past events and start to accept yourself now, you will soon witness a big change in your life.
Do not compare yourself to others, when you do that, you are denying your uniqueness and authenticity. You are all that you have got and you can't change that, so the only thing you need to do is embrace all your qualities and imperfections and find your unique purpose in life, that one thing that makes you special.

DO ONLY WHAT YOU LIKE


When I was little I often heard the line "first duty, then beauty" which my parents repeated to me constantly in order to get me to do things I didn't like. I have always tried to live accordingly to it until I realized that was not the way I wanted to live.
After my spiritual awakening I decided that from that moment on I would never do things I didn't like and that it is how my life started to change completely.
When we do something that pleases us we raise our vibration and start attracting things at a much faster rate than normal, and as we feel happy and pleased we can only attract things that are pleasant.
This is also I how I discovered my life purpose. After removing the things I didn't like, such as a daily job that wasn't leading me nowhere, I found myself with plenty of time to fill with the things I have always loved to do and this is how I started writing to help people with their lives. 
I do not have a regular income as before, but the quality of my life has improved exponentially and money manifests in different ways whenever I need it.




LOVE & BELIEVE


The only way to reach success in life is to do things with love, care and attention. Whenever you put all of yourself into something and you are proud and happy of the outcome, results will come for sure because of your inner belief that your work is worthy.
Other people will also start feeling interested in what you do even if they won't be aware of the exact reason why the appreciate it. That is the power of attraction.
This is why doing things you love is so important.
Remember, if you love something than you believe in it, and when you believe it deep enough it will become true. This is a universal law.
So, never invest in something just for the sake of it because you will undoubtedly fail.

"DO TO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD HAVE THEM DO TO YOU"

According to the universal law of giving and receiving, whatever you put out, you get back, so if you want people to be kind to you, be kind to them. 
If you are experiencing problems in your relationship, remember that the main cause is you. Change your attitude towards people and start acting as you would like them to act and witness the change. Remember, the world is our mirror so you have to be the change you want to see in the world.